Practice Areas
I offer comprehensive online psychosexual therapy tailored for men.
Sex and Relationships
Keeping sex fresh in long term relationships is a challenge. Eroticism thrives on difference and novelty. But relationships are often about the mundane and the domestic, particularly for couples with children. Sex can become dull and mechanical. The challenge is to deepen your sexual connection with your partner. But this can be challenging for men with low sexual self-confidence or who feel shame and anxiety around sex.
Infidelity is more likely to happen if your sex life gets stale. The impact of an affair on both partners is significant and both must work at rebuilding the relationship if that’s what they each want. Often the experience brings couples together again emotionally and sexually.
As many couples start families later, the sexual challenges around fertility have greater impact. Whether a couple are starting to try for a baby or undergoing infertility treatment, the pressure is not just on the female partner. Men can experience significant anxiety around sex when conception rather than pleasure becomes the main goal.
Working with me
Sexual difficulties can adversely affect relationships and relationship difficulties can adversely affect our sex lives. As a sex and couples therapist, I help men and their partners with both situations.
Whether you need to give your sex life as a couple more spark, or whether you are facing a particular challenge, such as the shock of infidelity or the anxiety and disappointments of infertility, I can help you work through the issues together and renew your sex life and emotional connection.
This involves working individually with both men and their partners and working with them both in couples counselling.
I provide an initial assessment at a reduced rate. This enables clients to make up their minds
whether I am the right therapist for them, and for me to assess whether I can help or whether I should refer elsewhere.